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  • October 21st, 2025
  • Looking for Love in All the Right PlacesLooking for Love in All the Right Places Hey there, lovely people of San Diego! My name is Elinor, and I'm a proud transgender woman living in this beautiful city. 💃🌆 So, let me tell you a bit about myself. I have a curvy body that's perfect for cuddling up on the couch or dancing the night away. My ethnicity is diverse, reflectin...
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  • Join TeresaAnne for an Unforgettable Swinging Experience!Join TeresaAnne for an Unforgettable Swinging Experience! Hey there, I'm TeresaAnne from San Diego, California. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. We believe in creating a safe and judgment-free space where everyone can feel comfortable expressing their deepest desires. You can fin...
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  • October 20th, 2025
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  • Sparkle with me under the San Diego sun!🌈Sparkle with me under the San Diego sun!🌈 Hey there, I'm Clari from sunny San Diego, California! I'm a proud transgender woman who loves embracing my true self and connecting with others in the LGBTQ community. If you're looking for someone who is genuine, fun-loving, and open-minded, then look no further! I enjoy exploring the vibrant n...
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  • Elegantly Transcendent: LetElegantly Transcendent: Let's Explore San Diego Together! Hey there! I'm Jodie, a proud transgender woman from sunny San Diego. I love embracing my authentic self and connecting with others in the LGBTQ community. Whether we're grabbing coffee at Better Buzz Coffee Roasters in Pacific Beach or taking a stroll through Balboa Park, I'm always up for an adv...
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  • October 19th, 2025
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